Monday, December 31, 2007

Christmas 2007


The Christmas season is a wonderful season, when we rejoice remembering our saviour’s birth. It is also a season of family gatherings. We were privileged that even all our children living far away (Bill & Rebecca, Indiana, Peter & Lauralee, South Carolina, Nick & Anita, Virginia) were able to travel home, so that we could celebrate with our family complete.


Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Family Pictures

This is a picture from Nick and Anita's wedding. Shown are all our children with their spouses and our grandchildren and also Scott, Jen's boyfriend.


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The second family picture was taken in July 2006, before Nick and Anita were married.

Monday, December 3, 2007

A Grand Holiday "Down South"

As soon as we received confirmation of the sale of our previous home, we decided to visit our children in Virginia, South Carolina and Indiana. I am still able to drive myself, and the weather was still very warm, actually unseasonably warm: 30 c for the middle of October! We took along my power wheel chair, a manual ramp (which is quite heavy) and my walker and two bipap machines and two batteries. Mary had to load the van with all this equipment, (and more), but as soon as the wheels started rolling, she could take a break and rest. We left on Tuesday October 9th, stayed overnight in Pennsylvania, and visited the historic town of Fredericksburg on Thursday.

We arrived on Thursday at Nick and Anita’s place in Suffolk, Virginia. We took three days to travel there, so that we would not be rushed. We traveled over Buffalo to Pennsylvania and that area was quite nice with fall colours. The last leg to Virginia was mostly busy highway driving with lots of traffic congestion, stop and go traffic, particularly around Washington D.C. We got there as rush hour started, and it took us quite a few hours to just get past Washington. We finally got to Nick and Anita’s, a little later than we had planned. We were very happy to see each other. Nick And Anita were married last July and we had not seen them since their wedding day. We could, for the first time, see their beautiful home. As plans are now, Nick and Anita will likely be moving this coming summer, so that he can commence studies for his Ph.D.


With Anita we visited the Botanical Gardens in Norfolk. The roses were in their prime and beautiful.





On Saturday we went to Virginia beach. We walked up and down the boulevard and due to the warm weather everyone was starting to become very hot, with the exception of myself, since I was using my power chair. Mary, of course, had to touch the water of the Atlantic ocean.




We very much enjoyed going with Nick and Anita to their church on Sunday.
We had a fantastic time staying with them!

Saturday, November 3, 2007

On Tuesday we left for Peter’s place in South Carolina. The drive was mostly busy highway driving, with the exception of the last part in South Carolina. We arrived in time for dinner after a full day of driving.
We relaxed at Peter and Lauralee’s place, got acquainted with their new home, and enjoyed the family.
Little Peter sure is growing up fast.

On Saturday we drove to the Blue Ridge Parkway to see the (spectacular) fall colours in the mountains. We had a wonderful day and enjoyed the sunshine and the breathtaking scenery.















On the Sunday Peter had a preaching engagement, some hours away, and he left for this on Saturday evening. Peter is a candidate for the ministry and presently is in contact with some churches regarding a call. When this materializes it is likely that they will have to move again.
On Sunday Mary and Lauralee went to church with the children, and I stayed home to hear the webcast of the service. (We were unsure if my bi-pap machine could be connected at a place where the sermon could be heard.) Regretfully the webcast service was not functioning, and I listened to another sermon off the church’s website.
It was great to be with them again and enjoy their company and all the children.







On Monday we left for Falls Creek Falls State Park in Tennessee. We had rented a lakeside cottage and had a great time there.








The park is on a the Cumberland Plateau, and has many huge, scenic gorges and waterfalls. There were abundant deer. We had one day of rain there, but otherwise good weather. On this one rainy day we drove to Chattanooga, Tennessee, where the weather happened to be good.





On Saturday we left Tennessee for Indiana, and arrived at Bill and Rebecca’s place in time for dinner. Anna was very excited that we were coming. Also there we could see their new home in Kokomo.
Bill hopes to complete his Ph.D. study at the University of Aberdeen (Highland Theological College) Scotland, this coming spring and is looking forward to finding a teaching position in church history at a Christian University or Seminary. He presently serves as a part-time intern at his church, and also teaches as visiting professor of Church History at Huntington University in Huntington, Indiana.

http://www.huntington.edu/campusbulletin/0708/090707.htm

We were privileged to hear him preach on the Sunday we visited. Also Bill and Rebecca anticipate to be moving (somewhere) in the spring of 2008 for Bill to take up teaching duties. We had a wonderful time at Bill and Rebecca’s place.


On Monday, October 29th, we were back home, after a marvelous 3 week trip of 4500 kms. The Lord blessed us with good times with our children, amazing scenery and weather, safe travel and for me also the opportunity to visit our children since I was still physically able to travel. I was able to drive most of the journey myself, giving Mary a more relaxed trip. The Lord has been gracious to us and we praise Him for his many gifts to us!

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Praise the Lord for His Providence!

Let me tell you what the Lord has done for us in the last little while. We needed to sell our home, or renovate it to make it accessible for handicapped use. Through the March of Dimes program we were approved for a grant to do renovations. This grant was to be accepted before the end of July 2007 or would no longer be available. The grant covered changes inside the home such as the widening of doorways and a total renovation of the bathroom. One of the conditions of the grant was that we, at our own expense, build a new 57” high deck at the front of the house connecting the driveway to the front door. We also needed to purchase a porchlift which would be placed on the driveway making access to the deck possible. All this involved a lot of expense.

One of our sons suggested that we would not do all these costly renovations, but instead sell our property and buy a home already adapted to handicapped use, such as a condo.

Somewhat reluctantly we set out to look at all the condos he had already previewed. Because our grant was due to expire soon, we had started removing the massive reinforced concrete front step to make place for our new deck.

To our surprise, we did like the condos we saw, but could not change our plans at the last moment, and decided to go ahead and renovate for several reasons:

1) We would need to sell our house first in order to be able to buy another home, and bridge financing plus expenses for two homes would cost $ 2500.00 per month for an undetermined period of time.
2) We would lose the grant immediately if we did not renovate.
3) We had to either sell or renovate since my condition was steadily deteriorating and I would not be able to get in or out of the house if nothing was done.
We believed the Lord had shut a door, and that we at this time should do what was required to renovate our present home.

We had not seen how we could ever make this switch to a condo at this time, and were thankful to the Lord for the grant, and the provision of a porchlift.

A bobcat was required to work on taking down our front step, and our front lawn and landscaping disappeared leaving ruts and huge piles of concrete. (Some years ago I had poured this step myself with concrete containing fiberglass intending it to last and last!)
A remarkable turn of events stopped our renovation in its tracks.

To our surprise, an anonymous brother offered, through an intermediary, to lend us the entire amount required for the purchase of the condo. There would be no contract, no paperwork, no signing of anything, no interest charged, no terms, no repayment schedule. Repayment was to be made when the present home was sold, whenever that would take place.

As you can see the Lord provided a solution which we could really not have imagined. His gracious providence was beyond what we could ever have hoped. It is clear that the Lord has all power on heaven and earth, and that this is only a small thing for Him. Our trust in Him was confirmed and strengthened. The Lord is good and a great Lord. We bought the condo (with a cash offer) right away. We had no written confirmation of the coming funds. We actually had no idea where the money was to come from, all we could do when the closing date arrived is trust in the Lord that the funds for the purchase would actually be there on the appointed day. Our trust was not misplaced. The funds were there.

Believing we had followed His leading in buying the condo, we also believed that the Lord knew we needed to sell our present property. We already had a conditional offer after two weeks, and we saw His hand in that. Then the conditional offer fell through, and we had to trust the Lord even more. We received another offer, an unconditional cash offer within three weeks, for the exact same amount as the first offer. The Lord was again showing us that our trust was not misplaced. So our house was sold within about a month, and because I had handled the sale myself, no real estate commissions were due. Another blessing. The buyer who made the cash offer to us received an offer on his house the very next day, the first day he put it on the market.

We experienced the help of many church members and those of our children who live in Ontario in cleaning up the mess in our front yard, landscaping and the building of a new front porch. After the purchase we moved into the condo very quickly. An army of volunteers from our church moved us in a couple of hours. Our street was lined with vehicles to transport our belongings. We thank the Lord for His goodness, and thank each for tangibly expressing their love for us through their deeds.

Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Progress Report 4

My ALS is ever changing me. I am losing fine motor skills required for writing, and also breathing is becoming more difficult. I am now almost full time on the (bi-pap) machine that helps me breathe. The distance I am able to walk without support is also decreasing. This means also that attending church services is becoming very difficult, also due to the hot summer weather. We are able to hear the Worship services live by telephone. (phone 519-633-1254) Services are at 9.30 am and 5.00 pm. Anyone can dial in. (connection is automated) If you do, it is best to make connection about 5 minutes before the service starts.

We had applied for funding with the March of Dimes for handicapped home renovations and this was approved. However, due to the fact that my dear wife Mary cannot, long term, continue to do all the work around the house, since she has rheumatoid arthritis, we have reconsidered staying in our home of 24 years and doing the planned renovations, but instead will be moving to a condominium. This will remove all outside (grass, snow etc.) maintenance for her. The condo is almost at street level, and does not present the challenges of climbing stairs as does our present home. The floors are mainly hardwood, and are easier to navigate for a wheelchair than our carpeted rooms. The doors are also wider, and the washroom is larger, and easily adaptable for wheelchair use.

We praise the Lord for His provisions and blessing us with this new home.